Friday, December 17, 2010

"Control Drama"

12 December

Message : 1.Use your gift during the time u r alive. 2. Forgiveness. 3. stop self-sacrifice but it dosen't mean " egoism". 4. Do what you feel happy, Say what do you want. but it dosen't mean "Expectations". 5. Nothing is the beautiful art more than the nature. 6. Passion and truth.

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Everyone have thier "Contol Drama" from thier family.

If you could understand that deeply and pass through there,

it means you can get over the contol drama and

you can walk the new road that your parents couldn't achieve in thier life.

That is the key point of the reason you came to this world through your mother and father.

Let's have a look.........

What was your father's belief, caracter, ploblem, strength...?

What was your mother's belief, caracter, ploblem, strength...?


I have founded finally......

it was the cycle.

Self-Sacrifice
   ↓
Expectation
   ↓
Force
   ↓
Persecution Complex



Stop Self - Sacrifice, but it doesn't mean " Egoism".

Stop Expectation, but it doesn't mean "too much Paticence"


If you stop Self - Sacrifice, naturally your expectations will go away slowly.

but we need " Compassions". We need the heart for caring the other people. Human love.



Everything is BALANCE.


but anyway it's very important to face with your weakness and look back your family and roots without fear.
That is the real inner strength.


The only you need is COURAGE.



The real strong person is
The real king is
not the one who wants to control everything,
but the one who wants to share evrything with other people



thank you my god
I could notice my contol drama and
it seems I could get over those that my parents couldn't.
Thank you my god
you gave me the power I can see this deep deep inside of my roots
and I can believe in myself.


I will be ture to myself forever.